Many times in our life, we get trapped into our own made nets... it happens all of sudden (as it seems) if we do not control it. It is like how spinners trap batsman with their planned tactics. But at the end of the day if we realize, Reacting to a situation is most easy and prompting thing to do, like instructing, forcing to your life partner, colleague, friend or child with your own thoughts rather than understanding them.
Next step is ego collision, which create huge problems in personal relationship. One very good antidote which i have found is, which works for me is... a simple question you need to ask yourself before you get into any discussion, or conversation or act of reaction:::
Is this thing really important?
90% of the time answer has been NO for me, and believe me i saved alot of energy, time, rework and it kept my focus going too...
cheers,
--varun
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