Circles OOO :)

It has been a great realization and practical methodology for me when my friend Arpan shared about these two circles which are illustrated by stephan corvey in his book "7 habits of highly effective people".
Green Circle is your circle, means it is controlled by you. Here lies the things which are directly under your own control, and your actions can easily influence stuff inside it.
Purple Circle is environment circle, contains things which you cant control (e.g. what will a person infron will think???). These are things, which most of the time hinder us to take action.

Now, I found most of us merely concentrate on green circle, we keep concentrating of purple circle and which of no use... no wonder we dont get the results.
Life became quite simple after i started using this phenomenon in my real life. You can make choice right there by using this principle, and focus on the stuff which you can control and suppress others!
Off couse after 21 days it will become second nature to you and your performance will soar higher and higher forever... What is more significant is that, "Over a period of time, your Green circle will start expanding and Purple circle will converge" and you become more and more valuable to the society, and marketplace as well.

Thats clue... will you do so?

cheers,
--varun

Follow UP

Follow UP!
Its way to see the result and guide them in your own way. If you think that you are not able to execute your plans, then you are not following up. Check it every day... you will be amazed with the results, as after some time you will be hitting you targets before the deadline! and its good problem to have :)

would you?

cheers,
--varun

Right questions do the trick?

Questions!
Questions!
Questions!
yes, ladies and gentleman. They do the trick, not the lecture, neither imposing words nor pictures... Questions have hidden potential and an martial tool of persuation. It needs mastery to do so, but it is always very effective even at beginner level. Because... Because... of only reason that, to ask RIGHT questions, you need to have....
1. Confidence
2.Belife about your acts

And the people infornt are going to feel it!, and once they know you are genuine and your question is about to help them... they are going to open their heart and here comes self persuation...
You can persuade somebody once, twice but not always... A man have to persue himself if he has to take a consistent and persistent action...

Take time to look inwards... and draft your questions and analyse your own answers... if they are noble and geninue... Then you are done for your life~~
Only remaining thing is to ask those question with certain number of people...
Go get it!

cheers,
--varun