It has been a great realization and practical methodology for me when my friend Arpan shared about these two circles which are illustrated by stephan corvey in his book "7 habits of highly effective people".
Green Circle is your circle, means it is controlled by you. Here lies the things which are directly under your own control, and your actions can easily influence stuff inside it.
Purple Circle is environment circle, contains things which you cant control (e.g. what will a person infron will think???). These are things, which most of the time hinder us to take action.
Now, I found most of us merely concentrate on green circle, we keep concentrating of purple circle and which of no use... no wonder we dont get the results.
Life became quite simple after i started using this phenomenon in my real life. You can make choice right there by using this principle, and focus on the stuff which you can control and suppress others!
Off couse after 21 days it will become second nature to you and your performance will soar higher and higher forever... What is more significant is that, "Over a period of time, your Green circle will start expanding and Purple circle will converge" and you become more and more valuable to the society, and marketplace as well.
Thats clue... will you do so?
cheers,
--varun
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