Many times in our life, we get trapped into our own made nets... it happens all of sudden (as it seems) if we do not control it. It is like how spinners trap batsman with their planned tactics. But at the end of the day if we realize, Reacting to a situation is most easy and prompting thing to do, like instructing, forcing to your life partner, colleague, friend or child with your own thoughts rather than understanding them.
Next step is ego collision, which create huge problems in personal relationship. One very good antidote which i have found is, which works for me is... a simple question you need to ask yourself before you get into any discussion, or conversation or act of reaction:::
Is this thing really important?
90% of the time answer has been NO for me, and believe me i saved alot of energy, time, rework and it kept my focus going too...
cheers,
--varun
Friday, February 29, 2008
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
TIME is law of NATURE
There is nothing fundamental than this, even you can measure truths based on this. Its something which is irreplacable. Existance of anything's virtue is dependent on it.
I have been so impateint before to understand this concept that "It takes time to grow", and there is internal growth (which also takes time) before external growth. It happens, that we are working so hard, hitting it so hard, banging again and again... and nothing happens or shows off outside... that is time to forgive yourself and keep yourself motivated with the noble vision and dreams which we have.... it keeps the MISSION on forever!!!
To do so, we need to understand the concept of time, time is timeless and so powerful that you cant douge this.
John C Maxwell says it to the best
If you are coasting, you are roasting... its matter of time
Keep the believe up and up, soar higher and higher, success has never being tuff its concept above which only few understand and they succeed always!
cheers,
--varun
I have been so impateint before to understand this concept that "It takes time to grow", and there is internal growth (which also takes time) before external growth. It happens, that we are working so hard, hitting it so hard, banging again and again... and nothing happens or shows off outside... that is time to forgive yourself and keep yourself motivated with the noble vision and dreams which we have.... it keeps the MISSION on forever!!!
To do so, we need to understand the concept of time, time is timeless and so powerful that you cant douge this.
John C Maxwell says it to the best
If you are coasting, you are roasting... its matter of time
Keep the believe up and up, soar higher and higher, success has never being tuff its concept above which only few understand and they succeed always!
cheers,
--varun
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
Dicipline
Ahhh... It is phenominal topic to talk about! it is the crux of all the success. We make alot ot decisions throughout our lives, ranging from waking up 15 mins early everday, regular exercising, loosing weight, personal improvement, going out, changing, calling to loved ones regularly, thinking first thought as positive early in the morning. But, what happens a week, a month after that... most of us fail to carry on the activities and never see the end result which was just about to come.
"Successful people make important decisions early in their lives, then they manage those decisions rest of their lives"
Off course, we need a decision (choice) first to manage it!!! But it takes DICIPLINE (of doing whatever it takes) to manage those decisions. Dicipline is nothing but a promise to yourself, which you will not deny. It might be reading a personality improvement book even you are tired in evening, taking your wife out because you promised even if IND-AUS cricket match is in final overs and many more...
Dicipline is not but the content of character, defines your value and impact in longer run of human race!
--Most important thing is we all know this, but again it take dicipline to recall it again and again... I used to biggest victim of it, now its gone better and getting even better... and guys it pays huge dividents when you stick to your inner drive and leave anything else...
cheers,
--varun
"Successful people make important decisions early in their lives, then they manage those decisions rest of their lives"
Off course, we need a decision (choice) first to manage it!!! But it takes DICIPLINE (of doing whatever it takes) to manage those decisions. Dicipline is nothing but a promise to yourself, which you will not deny. It might be reading a personality improvement book even you are tired in evening, taking your wife out because you promised even if IND-AUS cricket match is in final overs and many more...
Dicipline is not but the content of character, defines your value and impact in longer run of human race!
--Most important thing is we all know this, but again it take dicipline to recall it again and again... I used to biggest victim of it, now its gone better and getting even better... and guys it pays huge dividents when you stick to your inner drive and leave anything else...
cheers,
--varun
10 min lifeline
Hi guys,
This has been phenominal concept for me to use day in day out. Its very simple just need infomation to do it.
There are situations, challanges in everbody's life thats what makes it interesting and lovable. But sometime, you just get diverted because of all this mess at the begining, it looses your screws, focus is lost, and you just want to GIVE UP!!!!... Then comes this 10 mins life line. For these 10 mins you need to read books, listen tapes, think about people you admire (you aim and want to be like them...), get yourself motivated by understanding the fact that its OKAY. We are not the first one to feel like it, it nothing but the way to your full potential...
There will be days, when you need 3-4 10 mins or their might be days you need only 1...
Use it, love yourself, love what you do... people will love you!
cheers,
-varun
This has been phenominal concept for me to use day in day out. Its very simple just need infomation to do it.
There are situations, challanges in everbody's life thats what makes it interesting and lovable. But sometime, you just get diverted because of all this mess at the begining, it looses your screws, focus is lost, and you just want to GIVE UP!!!!... Then comes this 10 mins life line. For these 10 mins you need to read books, listen tapes, think about people you admire (you aim and want to be like them...), get yourself motivated by understanding the fact that its OKAY. We are not the first one to feel like it, it nothing but the way to your full potential...
There will be days, when you need 3-4 10 mins or their might be days you need only 1...
Use it, love yourself, love what you do... people will love you!
cheers,
-varun
Monday, February 25, 2008
stringing and unstringing the instrument
I have made a decision to write over this blog everyday to reflect over my learning of life and share it to the world. It may help other to not to repeat the same mistakes again and again...
I am quite impressed with ideas of Robin sharma when he discloses the difference between life of average person and elightened on! It goes like this :-
Simply spring has past, Summer has gone
And winter is here...
And the song I meant to sing remains unsung for
I spent my days stringing and unstringing my instruments...
It emphasizes over proactive daily thinking and working towards a universal goal which can give some meaning to our life!
cheers,
varun
Dreams are destiny
I am quite impressed with ideas of Robin sharma when he discloses the difference between life of average person and elightened on! It goes like this :-
Simply spring has past, Summer has gone
And winter is here...
And the song I meant to sing remains unsung for
I spent my days stringing and unstringing my instruments...
It emphasizes over proactive daily thinking and working towards a universal goal which can give some meaning to our life!
cheers,
varun
Dreams are destiny
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